Dating : so tired of getting fatfished
just put up to date pictures on your profile please. i had a date today that was 40 pounds larger than her pictures.
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just put up to date pictures on your profile please. i had a date today that was 40 pounds larger than her pictures.
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Fatfished… I can honestly say I’ve never heard that one
I will never understand people who do this…eventually they’ll have to meet in person? Then what? I work as a personal trainer and this actually happened a lot to me with guys lol…they’d put pics of them in their prime in college or from years ago only to show up fat and balding lol
Same bro. I have learned to just swipe left if all she has is face pics or angles, I’ve been burned before and it is always super awkward once I finally see her actual body.
The worst for me was swiping on a girl who was maybe 5’3 and 90 lbs in her old pictures that she was using. Ended up being closer to 200 when I met her. I was very very disappointed. I’m at a different place in my life now, and would be open to a relationship with her if she was honest from the beginning.
I mean there’s dudes out there that like curves and women that like big guys. Why would you want someone who isn’t into your physicality?
Happens to me all the time. That and getting crack-fished.
I’m in great shape for 35 years old, better shape than most 20 somethings and I have all my teeth and my pp works without meth.
But that’s all we get.
I’ll never understand it.
I had one that either hid her body or used old/blurry pics. Showed up and she was 6 or 7 months pregnant… she thought being pregnant might be a turn off, but instead it was the lying and hiding it that was the turn off
I would never go out with anyone on a dating site who just had a head shot. Im not after a model but some up keep is necessary.
I had a person do this and normally, I wouldn’t care so much about size if they were up front and honest about it but all of her pics were chest up. This is also the woman who told me straight up I didn’t make enough $ to date her. We are both govt employees. When I looked her up, she only made $2k more a year than me and when my second job is added in, I make about $6k more.
lol i always fear this type of reaction but im actually heavier in my pics than what i am now (i lost weight)
i can never tell if men just assume im thinner or know
i hope you were honest with her and didnt just ghost her
I do it. Sorry to everyone I pissed off. But at least I get a little conversation out of it. People aren’t nice to us fat folk.
Ha! You’re entitled to your preferences, king!
Don’t let people tell you otherwise. Oh, and if the roles were reversed, you’d not be getting nearly as much shit!
Honestly, I hate to say it but I’ve been guilty of this before.
I (36 M) recently used old pictures of me in my physical prime, like the one of me playing handball in elementary school or the picture of my mom and me at the zoo.
Yep! Tons of strategically-angled photos is a yellow flag.
Yikes. The best time to delete this was before you posted. The second best time is now.
That happened to me twice, but both times I straight up called them out on their pics and didn’t even continue with the planned date.
Both women were SUPER PISSED and said I was fat shaming, I said no I just don’t date liars.
I will never understand ppl that are so fucked up they only see ppl because of their looks with that being said ppl shouldn’t lie either everyBODY possesses their own beauty….
Pass her this way
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Yes, pictures can be deceiving…
Oops
Been a hard week…
How did you handle things when you met in person? Did you voice your displeasure or did you just think of a reason to bail early?
I feel like that when I’m hearing hats. I’m balding and my hairline is in shambles. Luckily I feel I look more handsome after a haircut
Send her my way, my preference is plus-sized.
same here, it’s all that I get.
Kind of like the men who lie about height, job, and penis size, etc…
We all have personal preferences but no one is obligated to post or divulge anything about themselves that they are uncomfortable with or don’t want to.
Omitting in this case is not lying. Everyone omits things from their profile.
Unless of course the pics are from a really long time ago or not real. Even then it’s useless to get all bent out of shape about it.
Everyone has bad angles, even skinny people.
Be nice, choose your battles, and just move on. There’s a million things we can discuss about someone wasting our time. But in the end it all comes down to how we handle ourselves.
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careful, it’s shallow
I would not date people who discriminate against others for the way they look. I would assume they are shallow and think that they are somehow better than, a disposition that does not sit well with me morally.
Bro, you date people based only on how they look? How about feelings?