Dating : So what do you want?
What are you looking for in your dating endeavors? (Casual companionship? A fuck buddy? A boyfriend/girlfriend? A future partner – someone you want to invest the rest of your life with?)
What does your « ideal person » look like – what sort of qualities do you look for/require that person to have?
I want it to be kinda alittle bit of everything casual, fuck buddy, gf, I want to meet someone that just wants to be best friend and stick with each other thick and thin.
How do I know what I want?
I had a crush in 3rd grade, i barely remember what she looks like.
The next girl i liked, reminded me of #1.
The next girl i liked, reminded me of #1,2
The next girl i liked, reminded me of #1,2,3 .
Were they specifically pretty or prettier than the last , or more social/popular , or more fun, or more responsive to me ? None of the above.
It’s not even that they with objective details that they reminded me of the last one. It’s more the feeling I get during that first 5 minutes of interaction (talking or not talking) with them. (Know that of course they’re not ugly, but still I wouldn’t label them as 100% pretty).
Someone who is socially and financially independent, fit, can cook, has a nice ass, and can suck a golf-ball through a garden hose.
I’m open to anything.
Girlfriend I can just cuddle with and do cute shit with. Someone who I can trust and just there for me like I’m there for her. Someone who communicates well and isn’t afraid of doing activities. Asian girl with a little booty.
someone that I can comfortably share and accept who I am with and vice versa. I think a lot of people in it for the LT may be looking for someone similar too; someone kind, listens/makes the effort to understand us, respectful, cheers each other up when they feel down; someone we can be around with everyday and not get tired of it, wanting the other person to want to be with us too. And specifically for me someone that doesn’t want to have children…
Preferably an exclusive relationship with someone who does typical boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. Picnics, family events, movie nights. Someone who will show me off and is proud to be with me, and I would do/feel the same. Activities together while also being my best friend. Someone who I don’t have to think twice as being especially beautiful, because it’ll be so damn obvious. We don’t have to be soul mates or marry, but it would be nice to have something like that for a good while.
I’m looking for a boyfriend and best friend, who doesn’t show any red flags as far as possibly becoming a life partner is concerned. I’m looking for a true match for me, in terms of lifestyle, education/intellect, fitness, humor, libido, and morals/outlook on life. It’s tough, because this is rare.