Dating : Struggle knowing how to date a girl
How can I date a girl that I only know from the place she works without looking like a creep?
Probably the question is confusing so I’ll elaborate. One day I went to COSTCO and I saw a girl that I never saw in the registers (or at least I didn’t knew she worked there). It’s not because » she has to be polite to everyone » I want to know here better. I have gone shopping several times and in none of those times that I got serviced by a girl I felt the same way I felt for the COSTCO girl.
So in short. Should I talk to her while she is working or just forget about it?
Continue checking out in her lane and test out small talk on her. Overtime, if she’s smiling at you and seeming interested in you – give her your number.
Unless she says something to you first and hints that she wants you to ask her out, don’t approach her or ask her out on a date. One thing I complain about to my friends (as a retail worker myself) is that customers mistake me being nice as an invitation to ask me out. I have to refuse, it makes things awkward and I become uncomfortable because I can’t even leave.
You have very low soft skills obviously. You also sound like you have nothing else going on in your life to the point that this girl, who you don’t anything about, is now the sole point of obsession for you.
I could give you some advice but you don’t sound like you have the best conversational skills to even pull it off.
I would say back off, go build the conversational skills and try again at a later time with her.