Dating : Things you see in profiles that aren’t big red flags but would still make you swipe left?
In other words, little things that annoy you or otherwise make you swipe left without bothering to look at the rest of their profile.
For example, « here for a good time not a long time »
« not on here much but message me on [social media handle] »
If I couldn’t tell which one they were, because all of their photos are group shots.
The pics of guys holding dead fish creep me out. There are so many! Also the hunting pics with dead deer are a huge no for me personally.
“I’m visiting and trying to meet people.” It’s actually really hard to make plans with people like this also if things go really well then you know they’re just leaving in a week or so.
Smoking don’t see it in profiles often but smoking is a big turn off for me
Stuff like “barely check this.” Okay, so I shouldn’t bother talking to you?
I feel like the people who say that feel dorky for using an app and feel the need to let you know they’re too good for it while using it anyway.
Poly or have kids, at 28 I’m still not interested in ever having kids, I’m still only interested in being a cool aunty.
Poly. Where does me + you in that scenario turn to « us » ? casual sex arrangement is absolutely fine, but i´m not anyones miny on their eeny meeny miny mo. i am worth more than that.
Here for a good time thing is just being honest. They just want sex. That’s not a red flag. Booty calls happen. Dating sites do have hook ups. Tinder is pretty much netflix and chill.
Venmo PayPal or cashapp links.
I got a few:
« I don’t get on here much, message me on [Instagram handle] to get ahold of me »
« I’ll know I found the one when my dog likes you. » Or « Only swiped right because of your dog »
« I’m taken but we’re open. » – There’s another word for that and it’s called cheating.
« I’ve got a kid or two or three »
A few references to the Office but it depends on what they are.
When the leading picture is a mirror pic of a bare torso.
ALL selfies.
« I don’t want/don’t know how to describe myself. Just ask ». That was an instant left swipe when I used such apps.
No description at all, too. And smoking.
If it’s just a list of their dislikes or just a textual yelling of “Not here for games, I’m not trying to fuck you so swipe left, etc”
This doesn’t make me swipe left because it goes against what I want on the app, it just points out to me that they had a chance to expound on what they do for fun and what their interests are, and they passed it up, fully convinced that you’ll swipe anyways, so they might as well use that space to filter out their doubtless stream of matches.
That says a lot about how they’ll approach dating in general. Instead of getting to know her as a person, you’re gonna spending most of your time proving why you are worthy of her attention and how you’re different from the worst of men. A waste of time I say.
– no clear picture of their face AND body
– bio is empty or just her Insta
– when she expresses preference which I don’t fit under
– when she tries too hard to look good. All that hoe makeup and 10+ pics/vids? Na.
– when she only has 1 pic (even 2 is much better)
– when every pic is from the same angle
– when they’re too small and try to look « cute » — I’m not here to adopt a child
Strangely enough it’s when guys put their height and follow it up with ‘if that matters’.
I know height is a huge thing for some girls but it just comes off as kind of gross to me.