Dating : Today I saw an odd couple and it led me to write this post.
So today at work I saw a very odd couple. It was specifically odd to me since I recognized that this girl used to go to my old high school. Anyways, the guy was probably like 400 pounds, had a neckbeard, and dressed like shit. His girlfriend however was a fit girl that dressed correctly and was hot. Probably a 8/10 in my books. I also checked out her IG and noticed she was into fashion. Just by looking at how he dressed, there was no way he was into it like she was. How can this dude get with a girl like that looking the way he did and having no simular hobbies. That moment right there just made me feel like shit, the fact that this dude could snatch a girl like that and I have tried so hard to get with girls in real life and got rejected in terrible ways and also tried online dating having hundreds of matches go completely nowhere. Honestly killed my mood for the day and I knew this shit would eventually take me to reddit to write a teared filled late night post. I guess some people in life get things much easier than others. Fuck I pray that I will one day escape from this cycle that just never ends.
>How can this dude get with a girl like that looking the way he did and having no simular hobbies.
All people on this sub is talk about how women only care about looks and if you aren’t tall, shredded and good looking you’ll never be happy.
Then we see a post like this, and similarly, it kills your motivation and confidence. If anything, this should give you the insight that women don’t judge men 100% by looks. You can be that way and still find somebody. We are assuming its not for ulterior motives, which is entirely possible, but either way he’s making you feel bad so something must be going right for him. Maybe.
I mean, look at AOC’s boyfriend. Apparently women have adjusted their standards as of late.
>I guess some people in life get things much easier than others.
Well…outcomes are never equal. For every guy who has good luck, there is a child being killed by malaria or something. Thats how life goes dude.
>Fuck I pray that I will one day escape from this cycle that just never ends.
This is not the right mentality. You have power to change. You have power to alter a shit cycle. If you just rely on praying to get off this life ride, then you probably wont change much.
People also forget that the divorce rate is 50% or more and that most people will be single again. Everybody needs to give themselves a break and realize that love comes and goes. For every ugly guys with a hot GF, there are hot guys with no girlfriends. Life is pretty balanced, you just don’t get to see most of it.
So you think that those kind of guys deserve to live a life of loneliness? If this girl is with him it is probably because he gives her something more than a physical apparence. It might be much more profound that just a body. They should have a soul connection and that is real love. To many women reject guys because of physical aparence and this is completely stupid.
And btw if you think that this guy don’t deserve this girl and you deserve it, you might give a superiority body complex. You don’t have to judge a person by his physical.
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I am a woman and I fight against heightism in dating.
I dont trust this post at face value.
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very rare will you find a fit young girl that enjoys to have sex with a 400lb morbidly obese guy. this goes past the normal distribution of matches.