Dating : Unblocking my ex of 2 years
I’m a guy who was in a relationship with a girl during college. We were both 19 at that time. We dated for 3 months I guess and then had a falling out due to certain disagreements and her disrespecting my family and I blocked her on every social media platform. Now it’s been around 2½ years and I accidently landed on her IG profile while scrolling through one of my Mutual friend’s phone. She’s really pretty though. I’ve been thinking to unblock her now to let go off all the hate, grudges and resentment as I’m a grown ass man now. Should I do that? Need a external opinion. Help me out here guys please.
P.S: it’s been total NC for this period. She’s got a public profile.
No. You’re letting the wrong head speak.
Can certainly unblock but personally I would strongly suggest avoiding looking at her profile or communicating with her on IG.
For women IG is about weaponizing their beauty for business connections and/or ego validation.
No. You’re clearly hoping that she will contact you. Blocking someone doesn’t have anything to do with holding « hate or grudges » you literally should not be thinking about that person at all.