Dating : Wanting to make things WORK
Hey guys I post on this forum a bit and I have a couple questions for y’all I(m19) have a friend(f27) who I met through work and we we hit it off nigh instantaneously we have the same interests and everything and developed a quick friendship the evolved past work too outside of it me meeting her roommates/bestfriends who also took a shine to me. I have grown to develop feelings for her which I did let her know about. I’m not one to sit on them and « miss my shot » sadly I was rejected.
I took it in stride these things happen and she wasn’t rude about it we still hang out an all even 1n1 I can stay the night at their place an everything our friendship continues we are even better friends text almost everyday an everything give relationship advice an generally joke around.
Now here’s what I would like help with i personally don’t have too much dating experience so we are having a fake date soon and I would really like to impress her even if it doesn’t bloom into something like a cheesy romcom but I want her to at least see as potential than how she does currently which is like a little brother her words any advice on how to make a date in a park romantic without spending anything #brokelife
Damn it bro you are making many mistakes. You confessed your feelings before her or before appropriate. Wrong. Women take ages for that stuff to develop unlike guys. 2nd she shot you down and friend zoned you. And you STILL are hanging out and texting constantly? But you’re buddies? I am watching my old self flash before my eyes. You are thinking like a stupid Hollywood movie. If I hang out with her more and give her time she will fall in love with me. Wrong. You need to do the opposite before you lose her. Stop hanging out and texting her constantly like her gay best friend would. Do you want to be her lover or best buddy?
You need to get her to wonder about you and think about. Women are like cats, men dogs. YouTube that video by Coach Corey Wayne right now! Buy his book before you fuck this up for yourself. The best way to get someone’s attention is by removing yours. If you smother her you will friend zone your ass. I made these mistakes MANY times. I’m trying to help you here. You should of told her I’m not interested in being friends. You call me when you change your mind and we will go on a date. Women like her never get told off usually. Doing that will make you stand out, you were indifferent and didn’t give a fuck. I practice what I preach.