Dating : What are good places to go to meet people in person and who do you approach them?
This has probably been asked so sorry in advance.
I’m a 20 year old guy in Rochester, NY who likes to go around the city a bunch taking photos and exploring. And on more busy nights I always think, how do I approach this group of girls for a conversation at the cafe or something? A good example is a place called javas that i go to a bunch and a lot of the time, there is a person or two out of a group that I want talk to. But I feel like if I approach them, I am interrupting their thing and I can’t even think of some ice breaker to start with. Any advice would be awesome!
Just approach them whenever you see one that looks interesting to you, be smart about it and charming and avoid any creepy behavior, start saying hi and keep the conversation as fun as possible and don’t say anything sexual. Ask for the number after a couple mins of conversation and that’s it. Relax and don’t rush it
I met my first gf this way in the street of New York (by Central Park)
Oooooh I know what I would do! Candidly approach girls in parks with your camera (sitting on benches or having picnics ideally) and say something along the lines of, « Wow, this setting is beautiful, but you make it breathtaking. May I include you in my shot? » Then after they say yes, cuz 99% of girls love getting their pictures taken, you can say something like, « Now if you give me your number I can send them to you ». Boom. You’re in.
I didn’t even need to finish your post lol