Dating : What’s the use in trying? All you get is pain
What’s the using in investing your time, energy, hope, love and excitement into finding someone if you are bound for failure. I’ve spent too many of my years trying to find any lasting connection with someone that it all is seeming pointless when with every failed attempt you feel shittier and shittier about yourself that you are not worthy even when things seem to be going well in your life and you are at a good place
Yup, this. I’m seriously considering throwing in the towel and dying alone. My self esteem tanks whenever I try to put myself out there so it doesn’t seem worth it.
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Look at yourself! The problem isn’t always other people.
Without risking the failure, you don’t get the chance to actually find that connection. It’s scary, I know.
If you don’t try, you’re guaranteeing yourself to not finding someone. Which is completely fine and fair too, but the point in trying and failing is to give yourself that chance to find someone.
coz ur not happy with urself.
be happy alone first.
Find ur passion and be happy being single. men will be attracted to you if ur fine being alone