Dating : « Why are you not in a relationship? » » You’ve never been in a relationship before?*shock* »
Okay, seriously. I get this type of comments whenever the question » Do you have a boyfriend? » Pops out or basically if the relationship topic comes up. It gets to the point where I question why I’ve never had one sometimes.
It’s not like its my priority and heck, I’m not even 25. Not like I didn’t try either. Just that I can’t seem to find a person that just captures my interest. I’ll be interested in talking to one guy for like 2-3 days and gradually the interest fades to nothing.
At this point, I should probably prepare for spinsterhood just in case.
There’s always cats in need of a good home
The next person that asks you these questions, immediately ask them out on a date. They’ll get the hint.
A dog that likes peanut butter?
I’m kind of in the same boat as you. I actually get made fun of because the guys I work with are thirsty as fuck and think that if you’re not railing out at least two girls a week you’re a loser.
Don’t worry about not having been in a relationship. I’m 22 and have never been in a real relationship (I’ve dated a few girls for a week or 2, but just like what you’re experiencing the interest faded fast). I used to be worried I’d be alone forever but I’ve kind of accepted it at this point. I just haven’t met someone that catches my interest yet, and if I don’t then c’est la vie.
Just relax and go with the flow of life and someone will catch your attention eventually. Focus on you for now.
Im 28 and never been in a relationship before. I feel you. But i just dont want to settle for something even though im this desperate. And im starting to question that.