Dating : Women: if a guy friend asks you for honest dating feedback/why they’re undateable, how honest would you be?
Assuming you two actually know each other fairly well, and this isn’t some ploy in itself to date you. If there are some red flags you recognize in him, would you be completely blunt even at the risk or embarrassing him, or try to sugarcoat things?
I would offer positive constructive criticism.
I give them honest advice! I’ve done it before. The sting of hearing what you need to improve isn’t nearly as painful as long-term loneliness, which I wouldn’t wish on anyone, so I try to help as much as possible.
If I know and respect this person, I’d give them some graceful suggestions on what they could work on.
Be honest so he knows where to start correcting. Only people that were truly honest with me regarding this was the therapists i was seeing
I’d wanna know the truth. Sugar coating does no good. I’m a big boy, I can handle constructive criticism
They want advice on how to improve their prospects. Give them advice on things they can change like hygiene, how they dress, confidence ect.
I don’t have any friends who are « undateable », that would require them to be total assholes in which case they wouldn’t be my friends anyway.
I do have friends who have trouble dating, and try to give honest advice about anything that’s within their power to change. I will tell them if they screw up and explain how their behaviour could be viewed as a deal breaker for whomever they’re trying to date.
Like if he ugly? I would say your standard are too high. Aim lower or look for handicap like single moms.