Dating : Would it be weird to randomly follow a girl who I have an interest in on social media?
Basically, I have a big crush on one of my co workers, however I hardly get to talk to her. She goes to a different school, and thus I have no luck doing it at school itself. I figured I would try to find her on social media, via mutual friends and what not, and I believe I did, however I don’t actually have any mutual friends with her, she follows an organization that I do. Would it be weird to randomly throw her a follow, see if it’s her, and then start talking to her?
No mutual friends and no connection? (that org you know jack shit about doesn’t count) No follow.
Talk to her irl dude. You’re coworkers.
If her account is public just do it and DM her, but since it probably isn’t… You better talk to her IRL before following her.
They get that a lot so you could follow her but don’t expect a date from it.
I’d wait until you talk to her again and ask for her social media info. I’m guilty of doing what you are trying to do before and it has never ended successfully for me. And if you don’t get a follow back then it kind of ruins your chances since it will be even weirder to later on ask her in person. So I’d say find an excuse to talk to her at work and ask for her instagram then.
I say do it and slide into those dms
I think you need to start a line of dialogue beforehand. I get you say you rarely get to talk with her, but try to. Go in early, switch shifts one day, anything. After more than one chat then I think it’s cool to add her.