Dating : Advice for a very niche person (!!mild-NSFW!!)
Let’s just get it out there I’m someone with quirks that I don’t think a lot of people would be into. TO put it bluntly I’m a submissive male with a mild pet play kink. The only problem is that I’m also straight (though nothing wrong with being anything but of course) and from what I’ve been told very very few women are ok with that. Is this a misconception? If not,how should I approach finding a date? Should I keep these things locked away until I’ve earned their trust or should I be direct? Are there crowds who are into this or am I just out of luck?
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Thanks ahead of time,
HuNoes
fetlife is your best bet for dating. anything vanilla like tinder or similar dating sites most likely ain’t ever be keen on that.
I’m not going to mention any details and « out » anyone, so don’t ask.
I know a woman who is (mildly) into pet play and is happily married. So, they exist. I guess you need to be comfortable enough with someone to have the ‘kinks’ conversation first(?) and see how they react.
Good luck to you.