Dating : ADVICE- How to deal with having a different sex drive than your partner?
Im 21F dating 23M and I never thought I’d have to ask this kind of thing because it never occurred to me how high of a libido I have until now. I have been dating a guy that I’m completely in love with and I absolutely love being “intimate” with him, but I am so horny i think it annoys him. In my last relationship it was honestly the opposite bc my ex wanted to be intimate more than i did (i also wasn’t nearly as turned on by him and as physically attracted so that may play a role). What should I do? We talked about it and I told him that I would take something (to lower my sex drive) and then he got upset and said not to do that, but he also is SUPER busy so he doesnt have the time or “energy” to do it as much as I do and he gets annoyed when i try to but then gets annoyed when i stop…. I don’t understand what to do…
Fuck em??
Man, why can’t I find a nice girl with a high libido?
My current gal and I have specific days where we are intimate. Since I have an incredibly high sex drive, and her is somewhat medium.
For example, every Monday, Wednesday and Saturday we have sex. And we both agree that sex is important in a relationship because we don’t have the chance to be intimate (other than sex, more so kisses, cuddles, showers, etc.) often due to our schedules.
Here’s a great tip. Intense workout and a low cal diet will drastically decrease your Libido, two birds one stone. Also… After a while in the gym, u won’t want sex anymore anyways XD
Honestly your too young to be thinking about lowering your sex drive! Women do not peek till mid 30s life is too short to not cum as much as possible!
i mean, no offense, but why can’t you take care of yourself sometimes?
1. You can change Your boyfriend.
2. You can find a fuck buddy to service you on the side while keeping your boyfriend
3. You can live your life unsatiesfied
He must provide you ur need if u respectfully ask for it.