Dating : Blocked few days after hookup
I met this guy on Tinder, who was here for the weekend. He lives in a country nearby, 2 hours away.
Before we even met, he told me this isn’t one time thing and that we’d be meeting much. We went to his hotel to chill, we couldn’t have sex as I was on period, but I did give him oral about twice. I slept over and he was willing to drive me back home the next morning.
Anyways morning I was leaving he already made plans about meeting me again on his way back, and that he hopes I won’t cancel him.
We still chatted for few days after that, but he wasn’t texting much, which I didn’t bug about since he was travelling. Anyways yesterday he barely texted me, he did compliment my looks when I sent him snaps but today I noticed he’s blocked me without ANY WORD.
Why do men lie about meeting you the next day, and even talk to you lil bit if they aren’t interested. Why can’t yall just be straight forward.
I came with ONS mindset, left with “something more” mindset and now I am being played? Can someone explain this…
Because we’ve (both sexes) normalized this blocking behavior, simple as that. People are afraid of even the smallest of confrontations and this is the result.
Sorry about that asshole.
He lives in another country and you believed him when he said it wasn’t going to be a hookup?
Is that blocked on snap? I’m not familiar with snap but have you tried to ring him on his number and email him properly. Anything can happen before you rush to think you’ve been blocked. Give it another day or 2 after trying other communication platforms before writing him off.
U can’t be mad that it was a hookup when u hookup with the guy. Don’t hookup with the guy if u don’t just want a hookups SEX IS NOT A BARGAINING CHIP WITH MEN. LETS SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE WOMEN IN THE BACK WHO CANT HEAR.
I wouldn’t trust anyone who says stuff like « oh we’ll be meeting a lot ». First of all, we haven’t met once so how do you know I even want to see you again? And if his only planned activity is to « chill » in hotel room he’s not that interested in a relationship.
I think every time someone goes out of their way to say « I’m not this », that will be exactly who they are. « I’m not a player » and « I’m not just looking to hook up » are just two examples.