Dating : Emotionally unavailable but interested in me what does it mean?? What’s the next step should I do
So I told this girl I think I kinda like her & think she’s special. Told her I wana date her & treat her like a queen she deserved to be treated. Replied that she’s emotionally unavailable & enjoys my company.
Abit of context. We do hold hand and have hugs before the night ends but that’s all. We do meet like twice every week or once a week.
Rn I’m unsure of what to do or what to say. I do still wana meet her but I feel that I don’t deserve to be treated like a second option
She wants to hang out with you as a friend. She doesn’t want to date you. It means exactly what she said it means.
Next time, do not tell people you want to treat them like queens and put them on a pedestal, it is very offputting. People want to be treated as normal equals, or if anything, feel like they are dating someone cooler than them, not a groveler.
Wouldn’t necessarily have mattered here she may have not been interested anyway, but yeah don’t do that.
Don’t prioritise people that treat you like an option. Don’t waste your time on her.
Never tell any woman again this amount of shit.
Tell her she looks nice, that’s it.
When she would become your queen, you won’t be her king.