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Dating : First time meeting a girl, should I pay?

Dating : First time meeting a girl, should I pay?


Meeting with a girl I met on social media for lunch tomorrow. Just a casual chipotle style restaurant nothing fancy. We’re obviously meeting in order to get to know each other better, so I feel like it’s a “date” but it’s also my first time meeting her so I don’t want to send too strong of a message if she’s wanting it to be more casual. I’m sorry if this is common knowledge, but I got out of a long relationship a while ago and kinda forgot about all the nuances of the beginning of the dating process.

PS: I’m probably overthinking this, just very nervous about it!

What do you think?

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  1. From my outside perspective, the whole thing sounds fairly casual. If meeting for lunch was your idea then I think offering to pay makes a lot of sense. If it was more of a mutual idea then I would lean towards just paying for your own meal. Honestly, I don’t think there’s a right or wrong answer on this. Sometimes you kind of just have to feel out the situation and go with your gut. Good luck.

  2. Personally i go by feelings, if the girl is a well educated and polite person i always offer. If i feel like she’s the type of girl that sucks money from people i split.

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