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Dating : For those of you who are lonely and single, what do you do to get your mind off of it?

Dating : For those of you who are lonely and single, what do you do to get your mind off of it?


Just curious what activities I can do to get my mind off my loneliness.

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  1. i really like exercising, playing video games, painting, trying to play an instrument, walking the dogs and searching for new things to try out haha

  2. I fill up and improve other areas of my life. I take myself on dates and don’t wait to have a partner to do things. Sometimes, I have bad days and need to just wait for the day to pass by listening to music.

  3. Some things I like:

    1. gaming (lately been playing destiny 2/borderlands 3 mostly as I recently picked up the latest dlc for destiny and got bl for 30 bucks on steam, sale might still be going)
    2. riding my motorcycle down in this area with lush forestry and winding roads by me
    3. cooking something new or a favorite
    4. walking in nature
    5. riding my mountain bike (streets are fine but trails are wayy better)
    6. just hanging out with some friends irl or on discord
    7. watching stuff on youtube like forged in fire or the f word or lately I’ve been watching videos on steroid use and pharmacology since that kinda stuff recently piqued my interest, mostly just out of curiosity. I don’t think I intend to ever use steroids)
    8. Going to restaurants I’ve always wanted to try by myself. NGL it was a little odd at first but going by yourself and being able to focus purely on the experience instead of maintaining someone’s attention is really nice, peaceful and different.
    9. Yoga/calisthenics

  4. Video games and guitar for me personally. I also was never really into reading but finding a good book is a decent way to forget about everything for a lil while.

  5. I study my ass off in school. I just turn my attention towards studying and exercising too and driving. But basically I just tell myself that all the girls in my grade are taken. Boom. Mostly I just focus on studying and just put those feelings aside.

  6. « It’s lonely at the top. » mentality + furious exercise ~~so that the sweat covers up the tears streaming down my face constantly.~~

    Learning new skills is also always fun.

  7. I work long long hours. Outside of that…I hike alone sometimes, work on my DIY projects (long term – robots, drones, etc), working in my garden, walking 5-10k daily, reading, watching skillshare videos.

  8. Hobbies? Idk after my last bout of depression I was doing nothing for a month and then I just joined a soccer team, started going to art classes

  9. The only days where I really have time to think about it are the weekends, and even then I occupy a lot of my time. Monday-Friday all I do: work, come home and workout, cook dinner and prep work lunch, go to bed, repeat. Little-to-no time for idle thoughts or even hobbies. Saturday and Sunday I will do chores, workout, get groceries, do laundry, etc. Playing games with friends can help, but I don’t get to do that very often.

  10. Workout, playing some games, listening to music, watching series or shit like that, but dont fool yourself your brain keep working in background.

  11. Pursuing my own hobbies, or picking new ones up if my old ones stop being enjoyable. I picked up digital drawing once gaming stopped being as enjoyable to me as it was pre-pandemic. I live alone and I’ve seen people IRL maybe…6 times since COVID first hit last year? Having pets definitely helps, although they can’t fully replace human interaction. I also do my best to try and hang out with buds over Discord if they’re around.

  12. I like gardening , I grow tomatoes , cucumbers and peppers in my garden. I live near downtown. It’s so fun to grow vegetables

  13. I have a lot of hobbies. I’m 32 haven’t been on a date since I was 27 and haven’t been in a relationship sonde I was 26.
    I’m lonely as fuck but I’m jacked.

  14. maybe its time you work on changing your state of mind, embracing your alone adventure persay. then you can revisit it when you find the right person to join you on your quest of life:)

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