Dating : Girlfriend read texts between me and my ex and thinks I’m creeping.
Friday my ex graduated from college and I reached out to give a congrats. We texted back and forth, you know just catching up. Keep in mind we haven’t talked in over a year but when we talk it’s like we haven’t missed a beat. The chemistry has always been strong like that. Anyway my girlfriend recently snooped through my phone and found the texts. She went down a rabbit hole of our messages and misinterpreted messages from last year as recent ones and thinks I’ve been messing around. I can’t explain because she’s blocked me on everything and won’t return my texts. What the hell did I do wrong? What now?
Most people are not comfortable with their SOs communicating with past lovers, especially if you describe it your chemistry as “we haven’t missed a beat.” I imagine you’d probably say that you wouldn’t react that way if the roles were reversed but you have to remember that not everyone will think like you (assuming that is how you think). I would go so far as to say that would make you the exception rather than the rule
what does « The chemistry has always been strong like that. » mean?
Just write the messages that she got pissed off about, with the responses or follow-ups and we can talk further, because this is vague
The question is why is she snooping? Does she suspect that you’re cheating? The way you talk about your ex sounds like you might have some unresolved feelings since “the chemistry has always been strong like that”.
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If she’s reading *your* texts and misinterpreting them, is it really your problem to fix man?
She shouldnt have snooped through your phone so her misinterpretation is on her. If she has you blocked and isnt replying, I would assume she broke up and just move on. Its incredibly insecure to go through a partners private messages and childish to ignore and block someone without actually confronting them and giving them a chance to speak. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who acts that way instead of just communicating her issues, having an open conversation and at least allowing you to give your side of the story?