Dating : Honest opinion about marine
Hey – not sure if this is the right place to get advice, but generally curious what people think about this situation.
I am a 27F – three and a half years ago I went out with my girl friends – we met two guys at a bar and I ended up hitting it off with one of them. I gave him my number even though he said he was about to leave for marine training – as me and my friends left to get into the Uber – he ran outside and we kissed each other.
We ended up going on dates that week and I spent the night one night – it was obvious that we needed to keep things light because he was leaving.
While he was at training – he would call me whenever he got his phone.
When he would come back home – we saw each other and went out with his friends.
There was one time he spent the night when I was on a work trip – I went out with him and his marine friends (I could tell they loved me).
Move forward 2 years – I got out of a relationship that lasted 1.5 years. I reached out to him – he recently got back from being deployed.
He just asked me to get together tonight – I’m scared of getting my heart hurt again because I do have feelings. Should I see him? I also am not sure if he just wants to hookup.
I sense that he likes me but logistically it’s a bit complicated Bc he’s in the marines.
Would love your thoughts.
That sounds like there’s some pretty genuine feelings there from both sides.
I say do it; don’t hook up though.
Loving a soldier is hard, not all women can, but if you really love him, go ahead.