Dating : How do I make a move without assuming he’s into me?
I (f21) have late afternoon plans with a guy (m24) soon and feel confused about the situation. We have mutual friends and began talking through instagram, which transferred to text. We text every day and he seems flirty. He offered to show me how to change the oil in my truck (long story lol) and suggested we get some drinks/food, and maybe go swimming. Feels more like a date than his words of “hanging out” to me.
I’ve actually had my eye on him for about a year now and feel like he wants to hookup maybe. I want to, but scared of coming off as desperate I guess and don’t know how he feels for sure. Do I just feel out the energy and see where it goes? Do I flat out ask if he wants to have sex? There’s really nothing to lose :0 Just looking for some guidance. Thanks!
Well do you want to date him or just have sex with him?
Either way I think swimming with some drinks should lead to want you want pretty quick LOL
Really no need to ask him directly unless you want to keep it strictly physical. His energy should make it pretty clear once y’all are hanging out.
He sounds shy, he probably wants same as you, sounds like him asking you out like that is him making a move maybe just give him a hint