Dating : I 27m, left my date 26f at a movie because she catfished me.

Dating : I 27m, left my date 26f at a movie because she catfished me.

So I matched with this girl on tender a little over a week ago and we were chatting fairly regularly. She seemed cool enough, down to earth. She had 2 pictures that looked pretty, but they were just face shots and had a strong filter on them. So it was had to tell what she looked like.

I sent her very accurate photos of me, no filter and one from a distance. I asked her for a recent photo, but she sent another with a strong filter and again just her face in low lighting. I didn’t want to be rude, so I just decided to trust that they were a fair description. I’m no model myself, I’m fairly average looking I think, so I’m not looking for a 10 anyway.

I asked her to a movie eventually, A Quiet Place 2. She canceled on me twice but finally agreed to go today. I asked where I could pick her up and she said she’d prefer to meet me directly at the theater. That’s fine, I got there and was looking for her and I see this girl standing in the corner who waves at me.

This girl looks nothing like the photos she sent at all. Her hair was way different, she was much bigger and, I don’t like to call people unattractive cus that’s mean, let’s just say she wasn’t my type at all and I was just really shocked.

I politely said 👋 and she asks if we can see « In the Heights, » which is a musical, becase apparently she already went to see A Quiet Place, with a friend on one of the days she canceled on me. I hate musicals but I said sure and bought both tickets. Then I got us popcorn and we talk casually on line before going in.

I hated the movie, as expected, and I was sitting there and just feeling annoyed, like I had been catfished. I decided I didn’t want to sit there miserable for 2 hours, so I told her I was going to use the bathroom and then just left. I was going to text her, but I was a coward, and just blocked her instead.

Idk, I feel kinda bad, really bad actually, but I also feel like she lied to me. I’ve gone out with bigger girls before, girls that weren’t my type, sometimes I just want someone to chill with so I don’t care. If she had sent a fair picture I still would have taken her to the movie and I would have stayed even if I hate it. You can share a good meal or a movie with anyone.

This girl lied about what she looked like, then even lied about what she was doing the night before, so we ended up watching a different movie, one I knew I would hate. So yeah I just kinda left and I’m not sure if that was uncalled for or not.