Dating : Not physically attracted to a girl, should i break it off?
Hi guys and gals and everyone between!
I’ve been on two dates with this girl that my buddie set me up with a blind date with.
Got to give to my friends credit that her personality is so much like mine, we’re both huge introverts and we also have so much in common, like hobbies and interests and that stuff.
But she isin’t my type physically, and i’m not totally attracted to her. I got this feeling already on the first date, but thought that maybe attraction isin’t that important bc we are some much alike. Or that the attraction comes later.
But now after date #2, i still feel the same about it, and only stronger.
I find myself going on her facebook to look at her profile pictures and trying to get attracted to her, but no use it seems.
I feel like a picky douche and i hate it haha.
Also if i would break it off, would it be bad to do it via a phone call since we live somewhat far from each other and she has a car and i don’t, so i don’t want to make her drive here for that. By bus, which i travel with mostly, takes about 2 hours there and back. So even that is not a big issue, so if you guys think a phone call is bad, i’ll just have to go to her.
What would you do? And have any of you had this sort of experience yourselves?
Thanks! Peace and love!
We talked on the phone just know and i told her i didn’t feel any romantic connection. But it came out that she had been feeling unsure of us as well! We decided that we want to stay as friends and we are hanging out later this week!