Dating : I asked him to be in a relationship with me, he said he had to think about it.
John and I have been dating for four months now. We see each other multiple times a week, about 3 times and sometimes we’ll get lunch during the day and see each other at night. When we’re not together, he’s sending me texts or calling me.
A month and a half into the relationship, I asked him if he wanted to make things bf/gf. He said it was too soon. So on Wednesday (a week ago) once it had been 4 months, I asked him again. I said I’m not looking for a stagnant relationship at this point and I need to know things will progress between us. He said he didn’t want to put a label on it or jump into anything and he has to think about it. He’s also really busy running a company so that was his main factor for why he didn’t want a gf right now.
We’ve seen each other there times for lunch since that conversation, but I’m not sure he’ll bring it up again. I don’t know what to say to him at this point. I’ve been seeing another guy since John said he has to think about it. Is this doomed or do I wait to see if he ever brings it up again?