Dating : I met someone!
I (24F) have been searching for a boyfriend for a while. I spent 10 months dating a guy who didn’t even call me his girlfriend, yet we did everything together as a couple does. I decided to leave and pursue someone who reciprocates my efforts, and after a few dates with guys that didn’t work out, I think I found someone !!
He (23M) is such a great match for me. Not only are we the same size, but we have the same energy.
We just really hit it off since we first matched. It’s so weird how much we have in common. It feels like we’ve met before !!!
Last night was our 3rd time hanging out, and we got on the topic of our hopes and dreams for life. He told me that his parents are still together and in a healthy marriage, and that he would like to find someone to be his life partner. How refreshing it felt to hear that! I told him that I am wanting the same thing. We agreed to close things off and continue dating each other monogamously.
If you’re dating- don’t lose hope just yet. When people say to work on yourself, it works. If you know your worth and love yourself you will attract others with the same values and ideals. Just wanted to share my experience.
Woahh congratulations, this is awesome! I wish you both the best of luck and lots of fun and love in the future!
Congratulations, even reading it makes me feel good. I dated with an avoidant partner for 6 months, did everything together but she never called me her boyfriend. Omg it took so much away from me… I am happy for you! And I am happy for myself that there is still hope.
Where did you guys met? Online dating?
I broke up with my 4,5 years partner recently and this give me hopes!!! Congratulations i hope the best for you!
Congratulations
What a beautiful post, congrats. Im actively seeking women, but yet to find the help meet where “we’ve met in the previous life before” aha.
Congratulations you guys have expressed your goals and wants . Needs is next and we never really know someone for 3 years . Stay positive be the change you want. You took the risk and went for what you wanted and so far it’s paying off. I would also have the bedroom expectations talk. Being similar is great its also good to challenge each other in non toxic ways to help each other grow. Good luck to you!