Dating : I’m confused. What does this mean
So a while ago, I just texted my ex for something. he told me he’s been thinking about me lately and that he had even texted me on Instagram the night before but then unsent it. And then he sent me a screenshot of him telling one of his female friends the same night that he saw a really cute picture of us so he misses me and our memories. I knew that she’s his friend, but they never really were « bestfriends », idk about now tho.
It’s been like 2-3 months that we broke up. We talk here and there but not much tho. Sometimes to check up on each other, other times for some advice on important matters. We hadn’t talked for a month or so I guess. He also asked to see me soon but I’m busy so I just said that I’ll let him know.
*Now my question is, does he still love me and wants me back (because of everything he said)*
OR *does he like that other girl (because of his closeness, sharing with her about me yk)*
this has been happening to me for a while now too and it’s so hard to truly tell without asking them. i would never actually ask but to me it seems like he’s close with the other girl but might still like you??? he could also just be playing with your feelings and sent you that screenshot to show he’s talking to other girls sorry hope this helps a bit
He’s trying to hoover you. It would be best if you disengaged from him permanently.
https://www.medicinenet.com/what_does_being_hoovered_mean/article.htm#:~:text=Hoovering%20is%20a%20type%20of,is%20seeking%20to%20move%20away.