Dating : Is my Co-worker (F) dropping hints they are interested in me (M)?
Pretty much as the title of the post says. So I am pretty close with this one co-worker, we have always had a pretty good working relationship and are friends outside of the office. Banter and teasing each has always been kind of the norm between the two of us. But lately she has been dropping compliments about my appearance and taken the banter up a notch. Now I just passed this off as just good humour between two friends.
Yet a couple of days ago I ordered mistakenly ordered takeout to the office on my day off. She messaged me, naturally ridiculing me for making such a dumb mistake. Going into collect it wasn’t really an option so I said she could have it if she wanted. She thanked me for it and that was then end of it until about today. She messaged me saying she hoped I would order takeout for her again soon. I passed it off as a joke, but then she replied calling me totally oblivious and telling me she was hinting at something. I am pretty bad at reading the room at the best of times so this really has me puzzled.
If anyone has any advice that would be great.
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Thanks.
She wants you to ask her out.
Ask her out, she likes you.
>She messaged me saying she hoped I would order takeout for her again soon.
**For** her or **with** her? Big difference.
1. She has a high romantic interest in you.
2. Don’t be a fool and start something with her. Hands off the company.
when you passed it off as a joke that she wasn’t serious, it Sounds to me that she wants more food .
That’s what she’s hinting at.
But just tell her you don’t really want to buy her more food unless you’re going out with her on a date.
Don’t shit where you eat. Dating a coworker is always a bad idea.
She wants you to ask her out.
How ever I caution anyone getting involved in work place romances. You are the guy, if things go south, you will need to look for employment else where.
Wait some time. Let her do the work.