Dating : Meeting women offline–am I the only one with no success?
In my opinion I think that summer is probably the worst time for me personally. It’s been over a year since I had a date (my only one) and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I feel slightly depressed since I have no real way to meet women because I don’t like Tinder or online dating (never had many matches). All my friends are either dating or in a committed relationship, so I don’t have many opportunities to go out socially. Most of my hobbies don’t involve women so I don’t think I can meet women that way.
My closest friend recently got into a pretty serious relationship and he no longer speaks to me or goes out with me. In short, I feel like there’s nothing I can do to improve my situation, especially since I’m in my 20s which I’m told is a red flag to women? I don’t like the idea of « game » because I’m fairly certain it’s not really a good idea to randomly approach women.
Rates of involuntary celibacy are skyrocketing among men for all the reasons you listed. There are no easy solutions. You can keep spamming girls for hours online. Or you can start going to bars and clubs solo and facing the rejection head on by spamming women there.
Either way you’re likely gonna feel like crap going through hundreds of rejections for one success. But maybe the success will be worth it. Who knows.
Speed dating is also an option and at least everyone is polite to you there.
« since I’m in my 20s which I’m told is a red flag to women » ….
Whoever told you that is a piece of shit intending to destroy whatever little opportunity and confidence you have just so that they can have a few seconds of feeling better about themselves (compared to you).
What’s your chances at 30s ? 40s ? 50s?
« most of my hobbies don’t involve women ». ..
How about getting a new hobby called (anything that involves women ) . I mean if your problem is that your hobbies don’t include women and for some reason your answer is to still keep doing those same hobbies and nothing new,, nothing will change.
>I have no real way to meet women
Do you live in a convent?
Are you in prison?
A deserted island all to yourself?
>I don’t like the idea of « game » because I’m fairly certain it’s not really a good idea to randomly approach women.
Well, let me tell you.. « Game » is EVERYTHING in life. See it as a strategy to get what you want out of life.
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