Dating : My one day relationship comments, sympathy are aprreciated. (Horror story)
I met this girl a few months ago and we hit it off really well. She ended up moving from Boston to Philly about a month ago, but we traveled to see each other every weekend during that time except for one. We originally agreed to meet up after a month of her moving away (economic reasons).
When she left for philly she promised to not talk to anyone until I went to see her and we would also sort out if we would be official or not. However, im not a trusting person so, I investigated and found her on tinder in philly (i used tinder passport to investigate).
When I finally saw her (surprised visited me) I confronted her and she denied it until I showed her screenshots. She made up some story. I told her I believed her and I dropped the entire thing.
Fast forward to 3 weeks later, we hung out for 4 days and at the end we made it official. I returned to Boston and the next morning 24hrs later or so I text her good morning. She is not responding to my texts on whatsapp but she is online on instagram and during that time period she followed some dude from philly. She told me when I went she had no friends or knew anyone in philly since shes been home the entire time.
After the whole tinder thing, I was not so trusting and messaged the guy and politely asked some questions. He screenshoted me and just went straight to her. She immediately blocked me and dumped me making this a 24hrs relationship. traveled to apoligize in person, however she said that she does not give second chances. I was regretful and blamed the entire breakup on me. I been devestated since and blamed myself.
Today I learned she was on a date with him all day. My suspicions were correct from the beggining. She was planting seeds to cheat on me within 24 hrs of dating.
Now, here is a twist. We decided to be friends and have a trip to chicago we are planning. I’m assuming she wants a guy to pay for her hotel and meals like I did for months. I honestly feel played. I really liked her and was extremely attracted to her. I havent told her I know about her dates. She made me feel like crap and I almost sobbed when I spilled my feelings for her. Little did I know she lied to me.
What should I do? I want to go on the trip just to possibly hit it one more time. Take pictures of us in chicago and messege the guy who could not even messege me at the start. I want to get revenge. Although, he never helped me, so I should just let him get played.
>When I finally saw her (surprised visited me) I confronted her and she denied it until I showed her screenshots. She made up some story. I told her I believed her and I dropped the entire thing.
Uhh, you have some deep rooted problems you need to hash out. Why did you tell her you believed her?
You knowingly got played because you were, lonely?
>Today I learned she was on a date with him all day. My suspicions were correct from the beggining. She was planting seeds to cheat on me within 24 hrs of dating.
So you knew it all along…yet let it play out and hurt you anyways. You got hit by a slow motion truck that you could have easily dodged…but now you’re blaming the truck.
>What should I do? I want to go on the trip just to possibly hit it one more time. Take pictures of us in chicago and messege the guy who could not even messege me at the start. I want to get revenge. Although, he never helped me, so I should just let him get played.
If this is your question, you shouldnt be in any relationship right now. Also, message.