Dating : Not Sure what to do
Hey guys! I’m a 20 yr old college junior, 5’8″ and 160 lbs if it matters, in New York City and am ready to find my next partner- I left my last girlfriend in November because she became emotionally abusive and I tolerated it for too long. The relationship before that one was also abusive.
I spent most of the last nine months focusing on my health, traveling, and university. I have casually dated a few people since then, but nothing’s really clicked.
I’m feeling a little nervous about how to do this because I make more gaffes than Joe Biden and am not too experienced in bed (I’m not a virgin, but not a stud either) I also plan to set up a Bumble and I’m going to learn swing dancing because I’ve wanted to do that for about a year now.
My desired traits in a partner: physically fit, sense of adventure, open-mindedness, ideally a little on the shorter side (5’0-5’2″), no games, apple picking dates
Dealbreaker traits: supporting Donald Trump, making no effort to stay in shape or have a career, taking me for granted or being emotionally abusive
Any suggestions about how to proceed would be much appreciated! Thank you!
