Dating : shes 30 im 24 idk what to do advice?
ive always wanted to date this girl i work with well i finally got the chance and now im kind of freaking out. The problem is shes 30 and has 2 kids while im 24 and still live with my parents. I am going to her house tonight and im sure it will lead to sex. Idk if i should go through with it because i do not want to get in a relationship with her but i dont want things to get weird at work..
any advice for me guys? would appreciate
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edit; i went over we hooked up but didnt have sex.. now at work she texts me « come kiss me » etc.. im just going to go with it for now.. hoping its boy toy status and she doesnt expect me to become her kids daddy
You literally answered your own question, you don’t want a relationship or things to get weird at work, so don’t see her!
It will get weird at work and she may be under the impression of it being a date, even if she doesn’t, it will still most likely be weird at work. Just find someone you don’t work with, plenty of people out there.
Edit: I also don’t understand how you have always wanted to date her, but don’t want a relationship….that isn’t dating, that is hooking up
You dont shit where you eat.
Sorry, « I do not want to get in a relationship »? Soooo, are you asking how you can sleep with her without any repercussions? Did you word this wrong by mistake?
literally everyone says this is a problem and will 99% of the time « dont shit where you eat, » i dont think its bad as long as you arent stupid and mess things up, whatever i just dont understand it
I obviously have no idea about her specifically, but a 30-year-old single mom casually inviting her 24-year-old acquaintance over at night doesn’t sound like she’s trying to get into a relationship either.
If you’re really concerned about leading her on and making it awkward at work, just make sure to let her know up front that you aren’t looking to date right now.
Your shouldn’t do it. You don’t want a relationship. If she does things at work is going to be really awkward.
Make your intentions clear and stick with them. You don’t want to be locked in a relationship with someone with kids from another man. Or, find someone out there like you who’s single without kids.
I wanted to say, that if you want a 30 year old then you’d have to baby her soon … but since she has two kids .. Let’s say you’re over thinking it.
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You’re more likely going to get boy toy status .. Let’s fuck and cuddle when I’m without the kids, but pls fuck off while I have them status .. etc. etc. etc.
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Just enjoy it