Dating : Single for 20 years… Can’t find a boyfriend
I am 20 years old and have been single my entire life. I am currently studying in a top college. I am 5’8, slim and toned, and have a pretty face. I am outgoing and have hobbies and interests. Guys seem to only be interested in me to hookup and nothing more.
The closest thing to a relationship that I have been in was a month with a guy who is tall, buff, and outgoing that I had many mutual friends with. He had tried to hookup with me multiple times at parties, but I dodged it. One night at a party we were talking and afterwards I ended up messaging and we hung out. After that we started hooking up about once a week until I lost my virginity to him. We would barely talk in between our hookups, but after we had sex he completely ghosted me. This whole « relationship » lasted about a month. This was before winter break so I didn’t contact him when we went on break and pretty much got over it. After break, suddenly he’s been trying to chase me and almost figure out why I act like I don’t care around him now. I am too nice to call him out on his actions and he takes advantage of that and tries to act like nothing happened and seduce me. I want nothing to do with him anymore.
After him, I realized that all I want is a committed relationship, but guys seem to only want to mess around. I guess it doesn’t help that Im a tall girl and most guys taller than me seem to be players. Please give me advice on how to find a relationship.