Dating : The 5 kinds of women theory
There’s this guy at work who came up with a theory. But before I introduce the theory, I want to give you a bit of a background on him. He’s in his early 30s, married, has a seven-year-old daughter. He constantly makes jokes about cheating on his wife with younger coworkers and seems dissatisfied with the marriage, when confronted about it, says he’s staying with his wife for the sake of their daughter. Yet he always does whatever the wife tells him to – she wanted a car, he bought her one even though he was very opposed to doing so, she asked him to leave a work picnic on the lake, he did so immediately, etc.
Now onto the theory itself. According to him there are 5 kinds of women in this world.
1 – the unattainable ones (virtually perfect, too good to be true, but you can only dream about them);
2 – the marriage material (not as great as the previous kind, but good enough to the point where you want to settle down and spend the rest of your life with them);
3 – the ones you would only hang out/mess around with (you wouldn’t consider seriously dating them, they are only good for a fling);
4 – the one-night-stand ones (only good for a few commitment-free nights, wouldn’t even waste your time on getting to know them);
5 – the ones that you wouldn’t even have sex with, unless you were drunk or they paid you (pretty self-explanatory).
I’ve talked to a few people about it, most seem to believe it’s bs, but I’m really curious what you have to say. What are your thoughts?
Complete bullshit. This totally ignores personal preferences and compatibility existing, as if every person thinks the same of every other person. It reveals itself as soon as you try to actually try to put people into these categories. Not only would you disagree with the you of the past, you’ll likely disagree with most other people as well. Also, that first category is a complete fantasy. It basically describes a crush, something that always passes to reveal how imperfect humans truly are.
Just another bs life theory from a random frustrated person. That’s what I think.
Also take a good look at the type of man you’re dealing with, the life he lives and the shit he says. Doesn’t really seem like a good role model or someone to be taken that seriously.
Sad man with highly dysfunctional marriage creates bullshit generalisation theory to appease his own ego.
Nobody fits into those neat little boxes 24/7. If this guy think the perfect girl’s shit doesn’t ever stink, he’s delusional.
Ew. This fucker is gross.
Bullshit theory. I’ve heard a variation of this theory before and it’s all bullshit
I think there should be 6 with one being in between 5 and 4
One where they’re way out of your league financially, education wise, and physical attraction wise but down to earth enough to be with someone not in the same league as them