Dating : The guy (M24) I’m (F21) dating shamed me for getting an unsolicited dick pic
My friend’s friend added me on snapchat because I was buying something from him. After the purchase, he began to send me shirtless “good morning” snaps to me and I would ignore them. I told the guy I’m dating about this and how disrespectful it is especially since the snap guy has a girlfriend. After two shirtless snaps, he stopped snapping me. HOWEVER this morning at work, I opened my snapchat to see a snapvideo of his morning wood. That was not okay with me and I proceeded to text the guy i’m dating about it. The guy i’m dating said “I mean, if he was being wack in beginning I would have removed him from my friends 🤷🏼♂️🤷🏼♂️ but that’s on you” and then a few memes. I replied with “Did you just victim blame me?” And “I He only snapped me once and it was a pic of him shirtless. How am I suppose to know it would lead to this? Not cool dude.” His reply was “I guess if I send pic of myself shirtless it must mean they want dick pics” I have never felt so upset and disappointed in someone before. I did not want to see his wood nor did I do anything that suggest I was even interested in him. I regret that I spent time with the guy i’m dating now because this kind of attitude fucks sexual assault victims over. These guys are boys, not men and I’m disappointed in them. What should I do about the guy i’m dating? How do I end it while educating him??
TL;DR I don’t know what to do about a guy who shamed me for receiving a dick pic