Dating : What Kind of Guy is this?
I have to say He is my friend but I don’t know him thoroughly…. Weird! Because we were office mates…. & The attraction started from there itself… He literally wanted relationship with me but I wasn’t expecting that the things will move in fast pace… I do like him…. He is my crush after all but I wasn’t in that phase of accepting his relationship proposal because at that time I was going through my own emotional trauma & i don’t want to take decisions in that phase…. Somewhere i was in denial that this is all fake & will fade away after some months, even i have told him to move on… But he was so determined… I don’t know how many times he proposed me & how many times I rejected him…. This scenario was there for 2 years after I resigned from that company…. After 2 years, it just clicked that I have to take this chance & i accepted his proposal…. Everything happed on Instagram but he said that he wants to meet me & we will decide about our relationship on a cup of coffee…. As I am an emotional person & he is a way logical & practical. i have told him so, & he was scared that if we would broke up in future then I would be stable or not & he doesn’t want to hurt me that’s why he wasn’t opening his total feelings to me… He wants to open up but whenever we meet (i hope so)…. but now the thing is… Feelings are overwhelming for him & he wants me totally ( if you know what I mean) we are not in relationship though… But I want some time & don’t want to jump directly on physical mode…. I have told him, about this & after 5 mins of yes-no argument he said « let it be… But we’re meeting for sure & miss me ». So, now the thing is–
1. I am not getting what exactly in his head?
2. Why he is not leaving me? even if he knows whatever he wanted it requires some time at least from my side. Because any chick can give him that pleasure!
3. Why he waited patiently for so long?? Like for 2 years??🙄
It is hard to crack men’s mind!! Huh!!🙄
Guys please help me❤️ I am curious though!!😝❤️
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Relationships are risk, you both risk the other one leaving.
1. You need to talk more about this, to make sure you are on the same page imo
2. Maybe he really likes you and think you are worth the wait, I went through this myself.
3. Has he mentioned that he hasn’t dated anyone in the past 2 years?
I personally like the logical&emotional dynamic, given that you complement eachother nicely.
Regarding the physical level, he should accept the pace you are imposing if he really likes you.