Dating : Where are all the women in the mid-range of attractiveness? Also, I feel trapped (rant).
I’ve been trying OLD (Tinder, Bumble, CmB, Hinge, even OKC at one point lol) for maybe 2 years and honestly I’ve noticed a huge trend that women on the apps are either very unappealing or way too attractive for me. There is almost never any in-between. I wish I knew what strategy to go for now. Work is out of the question because it’s work (plus I’ve never worked with anyone I’d consider dating in the first place). All my friends are either shut-ins or moved away after college. (But even then the last few times I went out and met a girl it just became casual…one even had a boyfriend which has kind of put me off of ONS).
All I really want is someone who is similar to me (not overweight with an average face). It sucks how so many people are fat. I’m not attracted to fat and I used to be obese so dating someone who isn’t trying to be healthy would just lead me back to it which I don’t want to do. I’ve just been really frustrated lately.