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Dating : I always get caught off guard when I get attention from a skinny or fit guy

Dating : I always get caught off guard when I get attention from a skinny or fit guy


Whenever I get attention from a cute guy who is skinny or fit. I am always shocked because I don’t view myself as the most attractive person and I’m sooo out of shape. I’m 165-170 Ibs and 5’8.

Like what the hell do they see in me? I get everyone has their preferences despite their own body type but I still have a hard time believing it. I’m overweight so how am I « entitled » (for lack of a better word) or deserving of time with a fit/skinny guy? It feels one-sided.

I could use it as motivation to get in shape myself. But doing it for other people never works out well in the end.

So yeah, trying to figure out if I’m in the twilight zone lol

What do you think?

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